People Pleasing and Goodbye to Race Season

I’ve spent most of my life perfecting the fine art of “people-pleasing .” Which is a major reason that I like having a coach.  I like to make people (specifically authoritative figures in my life – parents, coaches, bosses) happy.  The benefit of a tri coach and people-pleasing is that I do the workouts. I did my […]

Nobody Likes a Pushover. Oh Wait, Yes. That’s Exactly Who They Like.

So a former “fan” just took to my Facebook page and told me that she “used to like me” and now she “hates me” and I’m a “mean girl” with “mean girl tactics” and sell “overpriced stuff.”  [She asked to be removed from my site and mailing list, so I don’t worry about writing about this… […]